Chancing Dreams

       Chasing dreams that are worth chasing is better than chasing something that you know will fall apart. Lives isn’t all about making mistakes and learning from them, but, taking those mistakes and make something new of them. What are dreams exactly? Something you look forward to or expect to happen? As an individual we can make life however we want to; after all, life is what you make it. If there is something you really want and you chase after it, make sure it’s the right thing to do. Falling in love is one dream that almost everyone wants. There is no greater feeling than love. Everyone loves money so what would we really be without love?

What makes up a good relationship.

 Some qualities that make up a good relationship are trust, honesty, respect, and good communication. Without these qualities, relationships can fall apart. Being able to trust your partner is an important aspect, you won't have to worry about being hurt, or having second thoughts. Honesty makes a relationship build trust. When partners are honest with each other they feel comfortable talking and telling each other things, therefore, they don't need to lie or hide things from each other. Having respect for each other and each others decisions is important. A relationship can't be built without respect and being kind to each other. No one wants a partner that yells at them all the time. Like they say "Sharing is caring". You can't always have it your way, let your partner choose the movie this time, then the next time will be your turn. Being able to communicate is very important. Sometimes there are times that are busy times. It's hard to keep up with school/work and a relationship. You have to be able to talk to your partner, listen to them, share your thoughts and feelings with them. Since sometimes from a long day at school/work and you can’t talk much because your so tired, you could create a journal, write to them about your day, or how much you miss them. Then, the next time both of you see each other, you can keep each other updated.

How long can a relationship last?

     Let’s start with that word "break up". When you love someone that word shouldn't exist. All that should exist is thinking about being with that person forever. A relationship can last a lifetime if you and your partner want it to and is willing to work towards your future to make that happen. It is easy when you’re in love and have a strong bond that not even the universe can break. Sometimes times are hard; sometimes there are stupid things that are not even worth wasting time arguing about. The time that you see and spend with your partner is moments worth cherishing. Some happy couples are scared to lose each other, they wonder if they will ever see each other again when the die. If you believe in destiny you would suggest “If it’s my destiny to be with you, then destiny will bring us back together." If you want your relationship to work, not one, but both partners would have to want that.

Happiness And Changes

Happiness is the key to life, as well as changes. To live a healthy life, one must be happy. Happiness brings positive energy and confidence to yourself, when you are filled with positive energy, everyone around you will also have that energy. Changes happen every day, every second, people move on, as well as life. Have you ever thought about living your life like time does? Time never waits for anyone no matter what. At some point in our life, everyone will lose someone they love, and that would be a big change. If you can accept changes then you can accept life. Being happy make you live longer, it keeps your heart happy and healthy, unlike stress, which puts a lot of energy on your heart and makes it work harder.

Insecurity

   Insecurity has a big impact n a relationship. Being childish and selfish toward your partner can cause distance in a relationship. Your partner would not want to talk to you about certain things and they wouldn’t feel comfortable around you. Thinking about your partner leaving or cheating on you can make you feel uncertain and you will not have a full trust in them, which can cause you to feel a certain way towards them. It can get to the point where you think they are lying to you when they are not, and you can make false assumptions about their character based on suspicion. This can hurt your partner, or even make them angry. It is frustrating to try to be loving and faithful to someone who doesn't believe that you are sincere. Jealousy is another problem, of course if you didn’t love them you wouldn’t care or be jealous but you are an individual and so is your partner. It is not fair to expect them to cease all communications with everyone else just because you are jealous and you will feel better if they did. You’re in a relationship with that special person for a reason.

Arguments= Strong Relationship

    In relationships people have arguments, but is it possible that the difficulties in a relationship determines how strong that relationship is? If you look closely you will find that if a relationship is as strong as it is, or you suggest that the relationship is meant to be, no matter what at the end, both partners are most likely to be together. Having problems in a relationship is one thing, but the other thing is how both partners handle that problem. Breaking up is not always the solution; it really does not solve anything. People make mistakes all the time, it is a part of living, but learning from your mistakes could be a solution. Every relationship has arguments at some time, but walking away from something just because you can’t deal with it does not make it better or make you a better person, Facing your problems and dealing with them in a mature way is most likely the way to solve problems in a relationship.

Burning Flame

Think of your love like a burning flame, what happens when it’s out? Life is kind of like that, when the flame is out, that’s when you are gone. No one can figure it out, some people learn from their mistakes and others just keep making the same mistakes until they figure out that it’s a mistake. One thing about life that is admirable is we can’t go back in time to fix our mistakes. We keep getting older every second, life keeps moving on and there is no rewind button. It would be smart to learn from someone else’s mistakes, therefore you would save yourself from misery, Not Everything you can learn from people, you will have to experience most things in order to know how it really is.