Insecurity

   Insecurity has a big impact n a relationship. Being childish and selfish toward your partner can cause distance in a relationship. Your partner would not want to talk to you about certain things and they wouldn’t feel comfortable around you. Thinking about your partner leaving or cheating on you can make you feel uncertain and you will not have a full trust in them, which can cause you to feel a certain way towards them. It can get to the point where you think they are lying to you when they are not, and you can make false assumptions about their character based on suspicion. This can hurt your partner, or even make them angry. It is frustrating to try to be loving and faithful to someone who doesn't believe that you are sincere. Jealousy is another problem, of course if you didn’t love them you wouldn’t care or be jealous but you are an individual and so is your partner. It is not fair to expect them to cease all communications with everyone else just because you are jealous and you will feel better if they did. You’re in a relationship with that special person for a reason.