What makes up a good relationship.

 Some qualities that make up a good relationship are trust, honesty, respect, and good communication. Without these qualities, relationships can fall apart. Being able to trust your partner is an important aspect, you won't have to worry about being hurt, or having second thoughts. Honesty makes a relationship build trust. When partners are honest with each other they feel comfortable talking and telling each other things, therefore, they don't need to lie or hide things from each other. Having respect for each other and each others decisions is important. A relationship can't be built without respect and being kind to each other. No one wants a partner that yells at them all the time. Like they say "Sharing is caring". You can't always have it your way, let your partner choose the movie this time, then the next time will be your turn. Being able to communicate is very important. Sometimes there are times that are busy times. It's hard to keep up with school/work and a relationship. You have to be able to talk to your partner, listen to them, share your thoughts and feelings with them. Since sometimes from a long day at school/work and you can’t talk much because your so tired, you could create a journal, write to them about your day, or how much you miss them. Then, the next time both of you see each other, you can keep each other updated.

How long can a relationship last?

     Let’s start with that word "break up". When you love someone that word shouldn't exist. All that should exist is thinking about being with that person forever. A relationship can last a lifetime if you and your partner want it to and is willing to work towards your future to make that happen. It is easy when you’re in love and have a strong bond that not even the universe can break. Sometimes times are hard; sometimes there are stupid things that are not even worth wasting time arguing about. The time that you see and spend with your partner is moments worth cherishing. Some happy couples are scared to lose each other, they wonder if they will ever see each other again when the die. If you believe in destiny you would suggest “If it’s my destiny to be with you, then destiny will bring us back together." If you want your relationship to work, not one, but both partners would have to want that.

Happiness And Changes

Happiness is the key to life, as well as changes. To live a healthy life, one must be happy. Happiness brings positive energy and confidence to yourself, when you are filled with positive energy, everyone around you will also have that energy. Changes happen every day, every second, people move on, as well as life. Have you ever thought about living your life like time does? Time never waits for anyone no matter what. At some point in our life, everyone will lose someone they love, and that would be a big change. If you can accept changes then you can accept life. Being happy make you live longer, it keeps your heart happy and healthy, unlike stress, which puts a lot of energy on your heart and makes it work harder.

Insecurity

   Insecurity has a big impact n a relationship. Being childish and selfish toward your partner can cause distance in a relationship. Your partner would not want to talk to you about certain things and they wouldn’t feel comfortable around you. Thinking about your partner leaving or cheating on you can make you feel uncertain and you will not have a full trust in them, which can cause you to feel a certain way towards them. It can get to the point where you think they are lying to you when they are not, and you can make false assumptions about their character based on suspicion. This can hurt your partner, or even make them angry. It is frustrating to try to be loving and faithful to someone who doesn't believe that you are sincere. Jealousy is another problem, of course if you didn’t love them you wouldn’t care or be jealous but you are an individual and so is your partner. It is not fair to expect them to cease all communications with everyone else just because you are jealous and you will feel better if they did. You’re in a relationship with that special person for a reason.

Arguments= Strong Relationship

    In relationships people have arguments, but is it possible that the difficulties in a relationship determines how strong that relationship is? If you look closely you will find that if a relationship is as strong as it is, or you suggest that the relationship is meant to be, no matter what at the end, both partners are most likely to be together. Having problems in a relationship is one thing, but the other thing is how both partners handle that problem. Breaking up is not always the solution; it really does not solve anything. People make mistakes all the time, it is a part of living, but learning from your mistakes could be a solution. Every relationship has arguments at some time, but walking away from something just because you can’t deal with it does not make it better or make you a better person, Facing your problems and dealing with them in a mature way is most likely the way to solve problems in a relationship.

Burning Flame

Think of your love like a burning flame, what happens when it’s out? Life is kind of like that, when the flame is out, that’s when you are gone. No one can figure it out, some people learn from their mistakes and others just keep making the same mistakes until they figure out that it’s a mistake. One thing about life that is admirable is we can’t go back in time to fix our mistakes. We keep getting older every second, life keeps moving on and there is no rewind button. It would be smart to learn from someone else’s mistakes, therefore you would save yourself from misery, Not Everything you can learn from people, you will have to experience most things in order to know how it really is.

Key to a healthy relationship.

6/10/11         The key to a healthy relationship is Trust. How is it possiable to have a relationship with out trust. You HAVE to be able to trust that speacial person you are in love with and want to be in a relationship with. Don't you want to be able to not worry about things in a relationship and just be happy?
       Understanding is another key to a healthy relationship. Being able to understand certain things will make a relationship have less questions. Being able to speak to your partner is important because what is a relationship without being able to speak to the one person you love? You can't be quite all the time. You shouldn't lie about things to your partner. Remember how could you trust someone if they lie to you?

Be you? Or be who him/her want's you to be?

    Of course you want to look great on your date but in relationships mostly girls worry about how they look, because they want to impress there boyfriend. But do you really think it's worth it? Wouldn't you like to have someone love you for who you are? It is important to be yourself in a relationship because if your partner knows the real you, it would make not only you feel appreciated for who you are, but make the relationship reality. Having someone love you for who you are is better than having someone that you have to pretend to be someone that your not love you with.

Attention

When you pay no attention to your partner it makes them feel left out, sad and like you don't care about them. Paying attention to your mate is the most important part in a relationship. Sometimes when there is no attention, it makes them doubt their feelings for you. Letting your partner know how much you care about them or how you feel about them wouldn’t make them feel left out. Some people are sensitive, mostly girls, boys are sensitive too but they need to know that they are being cared for. Everyone needs attention, people need to know that they make a difference in the world.

Is that special someone worth waiting for?

If you think about it, It is worth waiting for that special someone. Don't spend your moments waiting though, because every moment is worth cherishing. Live your life, if that SOMEONE walks into your life and your not sure if that person is the one you've been waiting for, give it some time, talk to each other and see what happens. When you meet that special someone there shouldn't be any questions. Then you will say to yourself "it is worth waiting for". Everone is afraid because they don't want to get hurt, but the truth is, It is worth it if it's true love.

Relationship issues?

   All relationships have small issues, its normal. But a relationship that is full of secrets and lies isn't worth having. Most relationship issues are caused by lack of communication. Talking and listening to your partner is one thing, but understanding them. Most brake ups are caused by cheating. Whether you are boy/men or girl/women, your still human, which means you still have feelings. When you have been betrayed, words won't be enough to explain how you feel. You will feel sad and stressed out. If you really think about it, stressing wouldn’t help anything, especially not you. It would hurt your body and put more pressure on it. It takes more energy to be angry, depressed, sad, and makes you look older. You shouldn't forget about yourself because at the end, it would be you that will have to bear with the scars, not anyone else. There are many things that you could do. Go on vacation, talk to someone, do things that you will enjoy. Taking care of yourself and you should love yourself before you love or car for someone else.

Why is it that when we are in love, the only person we can think about is our mate?

     When it comes to true love, the only person we could think of is our mate. What he/she is doing, where he/she is, how he/she is, and if he/she is ok? That is normal, it shows that one care. If we didn't care then we wouldn't wonder. If we weren't in love with that person we wouldn't daydream about them. Being in love is the best feeling ever.
           When you are IN LOVE with someone, they are the only person you can think about. The only person you dream about, the only person you WAN'T to dream about. That person is the only one in your eyes. So why not think about that person ever moment, of every second, of every heartbeat?

Blinded by love.

  Love is a strong feeling, a feeling that not even words could explain it. When being in a relationship, you fall in love with someone, you dream about them all the time and they are always on your mind.  When making decisions, you make decisions based on love, you think about the decisions and how it could affect your relationship. Making decisions based on love is good but sometimes could be bad, especially when making the decision about your future. Being in love is wonderful but being blinded by love isn’t. The most horrible thing that could happen is being blinded by love and your partner betraying you. When you are blinded by love you are loyal and you won’t even think about looking nor have an interest in someone else. Making decisions based on love is making a decision for your relationship. Sometimes you need to not think about love and make the decision for you and your future.

Fear

Why does Fear always get in the way of life? When you set your mind to something, it is most likely that you will accomplish it. When there is fear, there is doubt that you won’t be able to accomplish what you want. Saying that you will do something is one thing, but actually doing something is another. Many people have big dreams that they would like to become reality, but some of the dreams are difficult to turn to reality. Some people have fear and they lose confidence in themselves because they are not really sure what they want in life. Life is filled with different opportunities that could lead you many ways. For teenagers, the hardest part of their life is coming out of high school and making that decision about what they want to study in college. Sometimes the decisions we make in life change. No matter where we go in life, not everything will go right.